I’m on right now, what’s wrong? x

boy’s minds are different from girl’s minds, i don’t think you should worry immediatly when he doesnt contact me. i think you should worry about not hanging out in the day time, you guys should talk about things that go on in life and let him wait. if he really wants you he will wait as long as he needs, if he doesnt? that just means he aint worth shit. (sorry I say it in such a cruel way)
I can be sweet to anyone if I want something from them, but I can’t keep up appearence for a long time. you know what I mean? I think you guys such keep contact and hang out with eachother but I’m the kind of girl who thinks (if you’re in doubt) that you should let him wait until you go further. And in my expierence this is a great way to get to know eachother better without losing the other person because you keep flirting and stuff but you don’t actually do stuff. for me this has been a good :)
I hope this makes sense to you x 

about anything, really

It could help if you went out (to a bar or a club or something) with different crowds, go to different places, also talk to other guys because other guys know other girls ;) this way you will just bump into new people. and I know this is maybe not the best advice to give but when I get nervous I just drink a beer of two so that i’m not wasted but just more social.
and once you’ve talked to a girl you can add her on facebook, msn, skype, … this is an easier way to talk to someone and there is nothing wrong with that and once you think ‘this could go somewhere’ just go do something fun. the ice will not be hard to break because you guys allready talked online so that is A BIT easier.
And it’s really weird if a friend of yours falls in love with you, its good that you have somehow of a friendship going but dont take that to far because it can be really hard to get a relationship with a good friend, it just feels akward..

I hope this can help you a little x

thanks x

my thoughts? i’m not really good with guys either because guys are weird and every other guy searches other things in girls but here it goes..

talk to him more often, try to be funny  and laugh at his jokes. just act like you want to be his friend (not immediatly try to make clear you really like this guy, that would just scare him off). Try to go too the same things, but not like a crazy stalker.
First you need to be his friend and get to know eachother, before you take any next steps.

I know it’s easy to say but cutting doesnt help, right? It just makes you feel numb for a while but the problem is still there after cutting. The best thing you could do is face your problem but I know that can be such a hard thing to do.
I used still am but i’m controling it to be a cutter to, the only thing that keeps me from cutting is thinking of the people I would hurt if they ever found out. I would hurt my boyfriend and my best friend. I’ve also lost friends because of it in my 2th year of middle school. I know it’s hard to control that feeling of cutting but you just got to keep thinking of the negative sides of cutting, the people you hurt, the scars, not being able to go swimming, no shorts (in my case because I used to cut into my upperlegs),… It also helped alot if I just yelled or just throw stuff around (things than cant break, obviously).
such sort of things help me when I feel like cutting.

First of all, you are beautiful you just don’t know it yet. To be beautiful you’ve got to feel beautiful. 
I don’t think of myself as someone beautiful but I do feel great when I lose some weight by working out or eating less. I feel great when I put on some make-up and dress up. those little things will help, and step by step you will become secure about yourself and in the end you will feel beautiful.

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